Movies Made For Comfort

During this time, I want to help keep people’s spirits up as much as possible. Since we’re all stuck inside with more time on our hands, it’s easy to get wrapped up in this COVID-19 chaos, doom and gloom. We could all use a little mental escape and what better way than curling up on the sofa with a hot cuppa and a good movie. The type of movie that doesn’t require thought. The type of movie that transports you to a simpler time. Something that makes you smile, laugh a little and brings a little bit of light in the darkness.

I was born in the late 90s so most films I find comforting are from the 00s. They just take me back to a simpler time of watching movies on the sofa during rainy days or cinema trips with my Mum. Back when my world was a little smaller. So here are my top 10 comforting films.

1. Legally Blonde

I know, I know, super girly but this film was a constant favourite of mine as a child. Not only is the soundtrack upbeat and fun but the message is empowering. You can do anything you work hard at, despite what people say or think about you. If you keep going through all the struggles and backlash of other people, it will pay off even if no one is on your side. It’s also a good reminder to help people along your way. Elle Woods has lapses in confidence and sense of direction in her life but ,throughout it all, she is kind. She is nice to people who are continually cruel and helps anyone. I think we could all use this reminder right now.

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2. Cheaper By The Dozen

This is another one of my ‘regularly viewed’ from my childhood. I know Steve Martin can be a crowd divider but I just can’t help but love this movie. This also has an awesome soundtrack (can you tell I’m a sucker for musical montages?) and is upbeat and easy to watch. A family of 12 kids and their parents go on holiday together. What could go wrong? It’s filled with typical PG physical comedy (and some adorable kids) it will definitely give your mind a break.

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3. Bridesmaids

A CLASSIC! This film holds so many memories for me. I remember watching it in the cinema with Mum for the first time. We shared many a cinema date just us two and they were so special to me. We’d go while other kids were at school so the cinema was practically empty. It was those times it felt like we were the only people in the whole world. On our drives home we would reminisce about our favourite moments and laugh together all over again. 
I also remember watching this film after my first (and last) night out clubbing. My friends and I collapsed on my sofa and put this movie on. We kicked off our heels, got under blankets and giggled together. I’d take that over clubbing any day!

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4. Practical Magic

Another one of mine and my Mum’s favourites. I can’t remember the first time I watched this but I remember being about 7 or 8 and trying to get my spoon to stir in my cup or trying to get flower petals to fly in the wind. Maybe it was this movie that made me so wary of men? It definitely made me suspicious of a beetle’s squeak. It has everything I love wrapped up in one movie: witches, love stories, revenge, sisterhood and family. This is not just a Halloween movie. 

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5. Hocus Pocus

Staying on the witch theme. This movie is one I normally save for Halloween season but desperate times call for desperate measures. It is an absolute classic and I think I know this movie word for word. It’s one for the whole family and really puts me in a cosy mood. And, yes you guessed it, it has a musical number that I recreated in my bedroom when I was 8. As a kid, I wanted to be Sarah. The funny one, the one who wore purple and the one who all the boys liked, lol! Not sure that happened for me. Sorry 8 year old me!

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6. Christmas With The Coopers

From one holiday to the next. Yes! A Christmas film. Even though it’s spring, I see no harm in recreating the ambience of Christmas. Christmas just seems to be a happier time for me, a cosy time and I can’t help but feel safe in a way. I know that’s not the case for some but it’s a time I really treasure. This film in particular is humbling and beautiful. Not to mention it has an incredibly cute dog. It’s just one happy reminder to love your family, even if they drive you mental or aren’t perfect themselves. So if you’re in quarantine with your family and need a little convincing to love them, this is the movie for you.
P.S in other countries this movie is called ‘Love the Coopers’

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7. The Mask

My friends and I used to watch this round my house all the time. Jim Carrey is a true talent. This was the first movie I saw that combined live filming with animation. I think  this was my first Jim Carrey movie too and it sparked my love for his work. Like all good movies, it has an excellent dog in it too! Oh, and a musical dance number or two!

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8. Bad Moms

This is a perfect time for every Mother in isolation with their kids to watch this. This movie always reminds me that it is okay to not be the perfect parent. The most important things you can give to your kids are love and happy memories. Spend time with them, listen to them, teach them things they will need in life like how to apologise or take care of their mental health. Show them how to unwind, be a good person and just be kids. This movie also highlights the different types of Mothers out there and that it’s okay if you don’t iron your kids underwear like Becky down the road or have 15 million colour coded worksheets. If you’re a good person, you’re a good Mum.

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9. Wine Country

This is more of a recent discovery of mine. It’s about a group of friends going on a weekend break together for one of them is turning 50. They go on a girls trip and tour vineyards but it gets a little messy. They show getting older as something to look forward to and true friendship as something to treasure. I can only hope that my life looks a little like this when I turn 50.

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So there we go, they are the top 9 films I find comforting. I hope they give you some comfort too. Now, please remember this is personal opinion. You may not agree but please feel free to share some of your favourite and comforting movies!

Stay safe. Be kind.

 

 

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Keyboard Warrior or Keyboard Worrier?

This week was the first time I rage quit Facebook. I actually got so angry at people on Facebook that I closed the whole app and wanted to completely abandon it. Now, people on Facebook can be annoying and small-minded and, yes, I’ve rolled my eyes and left the app but never felt rage from it. It takes a lot for me to get angry at people. I either can see it from their point of view or dismiss them for being stupid not letting it bother me but this week was completely different.

I saw people getting angry with strangers for taking their toddlers out for walks, for trying to enjoy the sunshine while staying safe and trying to do small things to keep their heads in this chaotic time. Accusing each other of being ‘stupid’, ‘selfish’ and ‘killing 100s of people’ just by stepping out their front door.

Yes, I agree with the government that we should only be going out for essential reasons. Exercise and mental health are essentials. Just being outside for 30 minutes a day has been proven to massively improve mental health. As long as you’re smart about it, it’s okay. Wash your hands, distance yourself from others and try not to touch things if you can help it and stay home completely if you have symptoms or in a high risk category.

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God bless NHS workers but, how are we helping them if we tell people information that isn’t correct or we don’t know? I’ve seen people spreading information like “Corona Virus is airborne” and “breathing in air from your hair dryer protects you” which is all wrong! I’ve seen people defend these claims like their life depends on it.

During these times, people’s businesses, families and lives are being torn apart. People are struggling financially, losing family or isolating from family, some people are stuck inside alone. However this virus is affecting people, one thing that will definitely affect all of us is our mental health. As someone who has suffered with anxiety and depression for 7 years, I am fortunate in that I can detect signs of my mental health getting worse and I have learnt methods to cope with this but some people can’t.

Now, we’re being told that we should only contact our GP if absolutely necessary. Due to the stigma of mental health people will think “I’m not ill-ill. I don’t have symptoms of Corona Virus or anything serious. The doctors are probably too busy”. If you feel this way, please, please, PLEASE, reach out anyway. You won’t be the only one. You’re mental health is just as important as your physical health.

With all this in mind, I urge you to consider what you’re putting online. Are you being a keyboard warrior or a keyboard worrier? During this time we should really be pulling together and lifting each other up. This is one of the most devastating events of this generation and it is affecting everyone. I’m also urging you to only listen to advice from health professionals and rely on the NHS website, WHO (World Health Organisation) website and Government website for the latest information. NOT Social Media.

Use it for good. Post things you think will lift people’s mood or things that you think might be helpful to people during this time. Passive aggressive statuses saying things like “People are such morons!!! *angry face*” aren’t helping anyone. I understand people use social media as an outlet to complain and vent but I cannot tell you the amount of people I have muted because of content like that. I don’t need to be exposed to negativity like that. I may love them, I may consider them a dear friend of mine but my mental health comes first. I know seeing that post is going to make me feel down and then seeing another one and then seeing people complain about bulk buying and calling each other idiots and I’m going to feel worse and worse and worse.
This is the last thing we all need.

So #BeKind and (to quote High School Musical) we’re all in this together.
This is a rubbish situation so don’t make it worse, make it brighter!